How do you define the word “better moments?” Well, it’s really a more powerful phrase than you think. To say that you’re experiencing better moments would really be saying that you’re living in the “better moment.”
In the old definition of “better moments,” people defined them as those “moments” where they get to actually enjoy a good thing. The thing is the goal. And that was considered to be the best moment, the “best feeling.” The only way to live in the “best moment” is to truly love the moment and this can only be attained through a good and positive attitude.
Positive Attitude: Better Moments
A positive attitude can be difficult to develop. It’s almost impossible to practice these things for everyone. However, if we can develop a certain strength of attitude, which is one of the most basic and most important elements, it’s easy to have a sense of who we are and who we want to be, and a strong and consistently positive attitude is the first step toward achieving that.
And the fundamental concept of the better moment is one that is universal. It is the willingness to allow the present moment to be the best that it can possibly be and the willingness to trust in that present moment. For better moments to happen, we need to get into the “moment” and learn to fully immerse ourselves at the moment.
Transforming Our Beliefs
If we can practice what we’re doing here, it will help us in our business, in our personal lives, and our work-life balance. We can change the way we think about the situation at hand by transforming our beliefs about the situation and then we can begin to follow our beliefs and trust in the “moment” or the “good feeling” that we desire.
If we allow for bad feelings to be present, we will not be able to believe that the present moment is really the best moment. This is a common mistake that so many people make and in order to truly live in the best moment, we must have the courage to be vulnerable and allow ourselves to feel the emotions of being present.
Courage To Experience Feelings: Better Moments
Having the courage to experience feelings of being present is the very nature of good quality experiences. When we recognize the fact that we are experiencing a good feeling and the best feeling possible, we can begin to understand how to grow from those feelings and how to become the person that we are really to be. If we desire to know and live within the best moment, we must allow ourselves to experience the best feeling.
It is also important to recognize that these feelings can also occur with certain methods of action. When we take on a new project, we can put ourselves into the best moment by doing the best thing that we can do. We can commit ourselves to a new activity and thus, in a sense, we are in the best moment when we are doing something that we really love.
Remember, it’s not so much what you want but rather what you do that matters. When we’re having a hard time taking on a new project, we can put ourselves into the best moment, by doing the best thing that we can do and thus, helping to make our lives better.
If we desire to love ourselves, we must also live in the moment. We must allow ourselves to be available and able to be in a good mood every single day, including our worst moods. Otherwise, we’re in for failure, because it’s impossible to truly love ourselves while we’re always in the “bad mood.”
Our greatest fears are often self-imposed and therefore, we must be willing to take our own power back and say no to the things that we fear. We can not always be in the best mood. But, if we commit ourselves to do the best thing that we are able and then let ourselves have the worst mood we may experience, we will discover that the best moment is always there waiting for us.
The challenge, however, is to do this consistently and allow for personal growth by making this approach a constant practice. And the best way to begin this personal growth process is to look for the different signs that something has changed for the better.